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At some point, we’ve all faced opportunities that made us wonder, “Am I really ready for this?” Feelings of inadequacy can creep in quickly when we’re stepping into new roles, responsibilities, or seasons. It’s easy to believe the lie that we’re not enough or that someone else could do it better. Yet, the truth is that God often calls us into spaces where we don’t feel fully qualified—because His strength is made perfect in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).

Embracing this process requires courage and trust. Courage to walk through doors even when we don’t feel fully qualified, and trust that God has equipped us for every assignment He places before us. Instead of resisting, lean in. Build new habits, seek wise counsel, and pray for discernment. Romans 8:28 reminds us, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” Even in the stretch, He is working for your good.

When you sit with yourself, are you totally showing up—or just doing the bare minimum to keep your conscience clear? This is where transparency meets accountability. It’s not about perfection, but about choosing to engage fully in the season you’re in. Avoiding the stretch may bring temporary relief, but it will never lead to transformation.

It’s easy to let fear creep in and sabotage your progress. Doubt whispers, “Am I really ready for this?” or “What if I fail?” But those thoughts are distractions meant to keep you from stepping fully into what you’ve been prepared for.

The soft life isn’t a retreat—it’s a recalibration. It’s a way of making sure my life feels as good on the inside as it might look on the outside. And this episode? It’s my permission slip to you.